A regular day in a military school starts with a wake up call at exactly 6:00 A.M. The cadets will then have a series of physical fitness activities. The breakfast or the “first mess” is often delicious and nutritious. Morning classes, usually around six periods, follow that is 45 minutes each. But before that, they are called for the morning military formation, inspection colors ceremony and announcements. Lunch is the second mess around noontime. Two classes in the afternoon are more of tutorials. These classes are mandatory especially for those cadets whose been falling back, or those who got below 70% in any subject. Every cadet is expected to participate in sports and other activities until dinner is served around 6:00 P.M. They then study from 7:00 P.M. until approximately or exactly 9:30 P.M. By 10:00 P.M., all lights are out.

Like any other emotions, anger is normal and even healthy. Everybody is angry once in awhile. Yet, when it comes to be too frequent and out of control, anger becomes destructive. Most of the time, anger is mistaken as a behavior. It is because of the resulting unpredictable and inappropriate actions that the kids show. Anger and behavior is related, but anger could never be a behavior or the other way around. However, anger can ruin a teenager’s life. It will destroy relationships, create school problem and personal struggle.

To some extent, angry teenagers could be admitted to military schools, but not all of them could qualify. Why? Because there are kids whose anger is already out of control. The environment of military schools could do such teenagers harm by aggravating their conditions.

Whenever your teenagers approach you and tell you that they are being bullied,maybe you ought to listen to them. Maybe it is not the first time that they are being bullied. Maybe they are finally telling you because they could not deal with the situation anymore.

Remember that most teen kids never talk to their parents about these kinds of issues. They often prefer to settle it on their own. Most of the time, they just let everything be because they are afraid. Yet, even if parents will deal with the situation, when school starts the bullying starts again too.

Teen kids, who are being bullied, could be partly right. However, parents should also confront the matter and then do something about it as soon as possible. One example is transferring the kids to another school, if not, sending them to a more safe and self- encouraging school like a military school.

A military school can provide a strong foundation to develop teen personality. See, the stronger the personality of the kids is, the lesser the possibility that they would be bullied.

There are several reasons why kids learn to bully other kids. For adults, it may just seem like a child’s play but bullying has been an alarming act. Yet, why do these teenagers become bullies:

* They often see others do it. Worse yet, they learn the behavior from adults. For instance, domestic violence could be a source of bullying.
* Bullies do what they do because they usually think that their actions are acceptable, because everybody else is doing it. Like, everyone in the “popular” circle are expected to treat everybody else like trash.
* Bullying itself creates a certain strength and power over other kids.
* Sometimes, bullying becomes a defense mechanism so that other bullies would keep away from them.

Not all teenagers who enroll in a military school have behavioral issues. There are some kids who go to such a school because they want a career in the military. Take note that studying in a military academy is never a prerequisite in joining the Army. However, it is an advantage.

Most military schools usually provide their students with information that could help them in their future military careers. Even if the job is not military in nature, military school graduates already have an advantage, because they are known to have undergone stringent education and training. Their acquired values, like respect and responsibility, will even take them further to success.